Big Sister: Mom what is she doing?
Me: It's called twerking
Middle Sister: Wow, OMG... what is that. I mean your body can do that? It looks kinda gross but why is there money?
Me: Ok so look... She is dancing for money but she is also pregnant.
Big Sister: Why would you want to dance for money? Doesn't she have a job?
Me: Well some people make money dancing like this. We don't want to judge but I don't want you guys thinking this is a viable profession. She has a baby inside her.
Big Sister: Oh. My. God... mom how would her child feel if they saw their mom dancing like that?
Me: I don't know. How would you feel if I danced like that?
Big Sister: It would be embarrassing. I wouldn't want my friends to know.
Me: I'd never do that to you. But we all have a choice what we do with our body because it is ours. You can't let anyone ever force you to do stuff with your body that you don't want to do. Either by paying you or harming you. It's yours and you choose what it does. Also we don't judge what others do with theirs as long as it isn't harming us.
Me: You want people to like you because of who you are, not because of what your body can do. This goes for not just sexuality but for athletes, dancers, models... Sadly people get trapped in letting their vessel define their lives.